Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life’s search for love and wisdom
The deeper the grief, the more radiant the love. We miss our friend. Lovers’ tears are the true wealth. My friend John Seawright used to say that the real tragedy is when you don’t feel much of anything when someone dies. That lack of grieving, the feel of not to feel it, 23 is not heard much in Rumi.
I recently saw Fierce Grace, about Ram Dass’s life and particularly the stroke. The movie focuses on the use of the starkest tragedies, not just his, to open the heart and help us find the vital core of consciousness, the soul. My favorite part is Ram Dass near the end saying yumyumyumyumyum when he hears a young woman tell her dream of her lover who has been murdered in Colombia. Several months after her lover’s death she has the first dream in which he has appeared. She yells at him, “Where have you been!”
Ram Dass ecstatically tastes the truth of what the dead lover says. No sticky possessiveness, no hanging on to the past. Grief opens us to more love, and the new love builds with the former, and there’s miraculous expansion. It’s a rare movie that gives off the fragrance of enlightened love. This one does.
愛君當時為了情感模式不再為情煩惱而來，長達3個多月的引導、遠距、工作坊，擴展了意識、提升內在心靈的品質，不再陷入問題的迴圈，因為問題已成為解答，開始運用直覺知曉的心靈力在Legal manager的工作上。療癒力的提升，也幫助了遠在加拿大的姊姊，而姊姊也因愛君的推薦來到了 in spirit，共時性持續的在發生。
X Your best teacher is your Iast mistake.
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└ → 問題依然是問題（易陷入自圓其說、內在繞圈子的盲點)
√ Your best teacher is your Intuitive understanding （你的最好的老師，是你的「直覺性的了解」）.. | └ → 超越問題的層次，了悟究竟與本質。
Because no problem is solved at the level on which it was created.The solution to every problem is to be found on a level that is slightly, or even greatly, above the conflicting perceptions. As long as you are eye to eye with the difliculty, you will fight the problem rather than resolve it.
